You know how very small children often go through a princess phase?
I do not recall going through such a phase when I was a little girl. Instead, it happened in the sixth grade, when I was charmed by a Scholastic news report about the upcoming royal wedding of Lady Diana Spencer to Prince Charles. The year was 1981. That was 36 years ago, and the funny thing? I don’t think I’ve ever phased out of the princess phase.

Lately — like everyone else, it seems — I’m charmed by Queen Elizabeth II as she is portrayed in “The Crown” on Netflix.
But there’s another royal family I’ve been following for a long time, too — and they’re on this side of the pond.
Let’s go back again in time: The year was 1995. I was a night reporter at the Pioneer Press. My editor told me to go down to the old Civic Center and get a quote from the new Aurora, Queen of Snows of the St. Paul Winter Carnival, moments after her coronation, in time for the next day’s paper.
It wasn’t exactly the best interview of my life. As the former commoner descended from the stage, she stopped briefly to speak with the media. I asked her how it felt to be crowned queen. She replied: “It feels great!”
My royal reporting continued in 1998, according to our newspaper archives: Apparently, I spent the month of January following around the candidates for a big story that ended with the crowning of the winner. I began the journey to the crown with orientation:
“Nervous energy builds as the candidates, dressed in business suits, adorned with poofed, French-twisted, curly or shiny straight hair and all with carefully made-up faces, gather Jan. 3 in an office on West Seventh Street. They learn the schedule of events, wardrobe mandates and protocol — no drinking, no smoking, smile, be nice, remember that kisses offered to or from guests, hosts and visitors are limited to the cheek and the laws of the state of Minnesota must be observed at all times. They are told: ‘You are all Princess Di right now.’ ”
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That reminds me: It isn’t just Diana or Aurora who fascinate me. I have also spent years reading about Marie-Antoinette — a fascination that dates back to my high school French days. In fact, when I found out that a friend would be visiting Versailles last summer, I persuaded her to take the long, long walk from the castle to the queen’s “Hameau” — the fake village where the queen used to enjoy pretending to be a farmhand.
Later, when my friend was back on American soil, I quizzed her:
“So did you go to the Hameau?” I asked with relish.
She paused.
“Yes,” she said. “It was a very long walk.”
“You … didn’t love it?” I asked, truly shocked at her lack of je ne sais quoi.
She paused.
“Well,” she said, politely, “I think I would have to read more about her life to really appreciate it.”
Did I mention that I’m still trying to find the most definitive Marie-Antoinette biography — among the handful I’ve read — to gift to this friend?
I’m certain she will love reading it! Oui!
Non?

Closer to home, my favorite Queen of Snows was the late, great Helen Duffy Murphy. I first interviewed her in 1995 about what it was like to live with that title:
“It’s a great conversation starter, says Murphy. The 1947 queen has lived — fittingly, it seems, for a former Winter Carnival royal — on regal Summit Avenue of St. Paul for the past 45 years. Now 69, she and her husband, Dick Murphy, have hosted annual teas for the former queens and the snow queen candidates at their home since 1961. She was a 22-year-old bank teller when she was crowned queen that year. She likens it to a Cinderella story — a working girl used to scrubbing pots and pans getting treated like a princess for a short time. The hardest moments came visiting sick children and the war-weary veterans at hospitals, she said. It was her 15 minutes of fame, when people would regularly ask for her autograph. Murphy said she will always remember attending the cotton carnival in Memphis, Tenn., when the Southern city greeted her with fireworks that spelled out her name: ‘Welcome Queen Helen.’ ‘It was a great deal of pride, to represent the city,’ she said as she paged through a scrapbook of photos and yellowed newspaper clippings from her reign. ‘It is a fairy tale … the working girl becomes the toast of the town for a while.’ ”
In 1999, I decided to follow around the new Queen, Martha Hill, during the carnival. This article is so fun and so full of detail that I don’t even know which part to quote, but I’ll go with this anecdote: