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somthing irking you? pissing you off? rant about it here.
somthing irking you? pissing you off? rant about it here.
somthing irking you? pissing you off? rant about it here.
usually when these people at the growers lunch see me, I'm in cutoffs and a vineyard shirt and boots... I just had men who I KNOW hate my guts (cause I put them in their place during harvest) come up and try to hug and touch me..
bleech... get off.
I played it cool and offered them my hand for a handshake. and kept my butt against a tree or bush - wasn't taking any chances like last year when I kept getting it grabbed.
Sad twist to the world, those guys seem to have no trouble finding women, guys like me are lucky to find one.
if you are interested I'll be discrete?
wow.......bad...just bad...
KC - most ladies do appreciate the notion, the ones who get mad, secretly wanted the guy to hit on them.. :smile:
I shook my head in disgust and said - you have two choices - you can turn around and walk back up here and we can have this conversation over again (differently) or I can call your wife. You got 2 seconds to decide.
needless to say - all three walked about 10 feet away, turned around and re-greeted me.
what is sad is - two are guys my B/F considers some of his best friends. - jerks.
true......about umm...15yrs ago...My best friend broke up with this girl....
I asked him if I could ask her out....he warned me I could...but I couldn't handle her....
should have listen'd to him...
anyways I felt bad even for askin' him...it just felt dirty all the way around....
I wonder if it's certain guys who just attract that kind of sleeze as friends.
The boy isn't that type - but man some of his friends. The weekend I met him, was @ convention a year ago, and both his roommates fought tooth and nail trying to beat him to me. They (thankfully) were at least single.
...yet... :wink:
Might as well string up a hammock in my cubicle and take a nap.
One of these days I ought to start a blog about all these stupid occurances that happen in my life.
you already know from two nights in a row, back on the 3rd and 4th...that seems to be all I do, to avoid my own crappy life lately, is run off to save friends from bad predictaments...
seriously? Thats the mistake that ive been making, lately? Knowing how to shop for food?
I give up.
I dunno ive stopped counting, and really dont care...
I dont think its the guy that attracts the friends, its the "friend" themself, thinking that what they're doing is actually a good thing.
Thats from my perspective anyways.... which is usually "wrong" anyhow.
11:30 and we get through configuring the new network, only to find out this guy has a major issue with the new network, so I had to switch back to the old one.
My entire evening was wasted...... dangit anyway. I'm goin home to crawl into bed.
Setting up a weekend ATV trip to Michigan with my cousin so I could spend more time with my side of the family on wednesday. Finding out late thursday that his mother (my close aunt) fell down the steps and fractured her skull, Killing her. :frown:
Trying to have a life and accomplish things during daylight hours when you work nights.
Old, Old Auntie of mine died last fall. Her two children, Steve and Sig, hated her and never took care of her at all - they hate her so much one lives in Maine, one lives in Seattle. My mother and dad basically took care of her, hospital trips, etc.
So anyway, Sig is a cheapskate who hated Auntie with a passion. But now that she's dead, Sig has rented a trailer and is driving here from Maine to clean out the house, and going to give the rest of the stuff to charity, NOTHING to ANY OTHER FAMILY MEMBER.
I am NOT worried about getting anything for me. Or my mom and dad (although, three times we rode in an ambulance with Mary to the hospital.) But, my 93 year old Grandmother - who GAVE Auntie a LOT of her stuff - shouldn't I fight for Granny to get at least some memento of her sister of 90 years? Because Sig and co. hate the rest of the family and have REFUSED to give anything away, even the paper towels.
Thoughts? Please post serious responses.
Is there a will? and an executor? I'd say - if the daughter hated her so much, then before she gets there - get the stuff out that family would appreciate, cause chances are - the daughter hasn't been around lately and wouldn't know what was/wasn't there anyways.
it's not the 'nice, proper, ethical' approach I realize, however (as I've learned) nice, proper and ethical sadly don't mean crap when there are dead people involved.
Unfortunately, I don't see you having any kind of leg to stand on since it's her kids and they are recognized as her heirs. Nobody else matters in those situations unless it's in writing.
Sad but true.
L4V might have an idea there but I'd be real careful in case Sig has already contacted the neighbors and asked them to be on the look out for you guys.
My plan is to just go to the house by myself and sit outside watching them load everything until they say something to me. Then see what develops from there.
Awesome avatar and tag Bear. haha
I've gone round and round with my grandmothers estate since 1998 (and am now just getting to file in court to take over executorship) and prior to that 5 or so years of battling to be her conservator... and a couple of months ago, my aunt went into the house without permission and took a plant stand that is like the #1 thing 5 people wanted - needless to say, now I'm fighting about a plant stand.. I too wanted it - but was planning on giving to my cousin who listed that as the ONLY thing she wanted.
fighting over objects suck. greed sucks. I hate it all.
Something to look into if there wasn't a will.
Yes - we're dealing with that right now with her dad. He wasn't married. I wish he was. What a headache.
My husband didn't have a will and his brother and sister had to sign off on anything that didn't name me as a beneficiary.
Like what? I thought everything was considered the widow's unless written otherwise instead of the other way around.