Although the day isn't over yet. I use my car as a place of solitude. Maybe not the safest thing to do but it works for me for now. It's good that I'm not driving tomorrow. But I'm better around people anyway.
I know that there will be ups and downs throughout this whole process so I'm OK with it when it hits.
irritates: waiting with my dog for him to drop over with sedation to have his sutures removed. he's my big baby n cried when i tried to leave. i wanted to go home n shower cuz im going out tonite but he was having none of it.
so here i sit. thank gawd for internet on my phone.
he is kinda cute when hes drugged. all slobbery wobbly and just a big teddy bear.
dog update - he's fine, but the big fatty damn near killed me when loading him into my car drugged. all 120 pounds of him, fell back ontop of me, knocked me down, and I have some skinned spots. not his fault, but I sure did swear at him.
I'm being reminded of how strong our bodies and souls can be at the exact time how fragile our lives really are.
knowing 2 people who went into the hospital for major life threatening surgeries -- Jake and I visited one of them in the hospital ICU. I told Jake that something is still not right....after everything that has happened over the last couple of weeks I still feel uneasy and somethings still not right...to get a phone call from my mom a couple hours later to find out that our family friend WAS in the same ICU at the same hospital and passed away that morning I was there! :frown: - my other friend is looking really good thank GOD!
Getting a call from the assistant county attorney. Evidently they dropped the driving without insurance, innattentive driving and failure to drive with due dillegence charges against the guy that rear ended me. I found out about the hearing on tuesday of last week and the hearing was on thursday. They said I didn't need to go. The hearing officer dismissed the cas because there was no "independant witness" to the case. Evidently my word and a police officers ticket wasn't enough.
Justice is a joke!
The guy actually admitted he hit me to the cop, but in this day and age I guess thats not enough. Although after he admitted he hit me he also immediatly started lying to the cop saying that I stopped on purpose so I could get my car fixed and that he didn't do the damage to my car. What a joke!
I'm pissed! :angry: :angry: :angry:
On a better note I still have a courtdate with the passenger (His girlfreind) that owned the car. His notice was returned because the concilliation court mailed the summons to the wrong adress! :angry: :angry: But she did answer it so I at least got her to court, since she is probly ultimatly responsible to insure her vehicle. I could have given them another adress to mail a summons to but we would have to reserve them both and I don't trust that he gave the correct adress anyways. And I don't think she'd accept another certified letter after her last one, so I better just take her to court.
The whole thing ticks me off! All you have to do is lie, lie, lie and deny everthing and you go scotfree. What a joke! :angry:
We got a letter stating we may be subpoened to Pine County court in August.
If you remember, a few years ago - during the Phalen hunt - our place up north had been broken into. They finally got the guy on check forgery. That may be what we get subpoened for...the forgery. Not all the stuff he otherwise stole from the house. Not the breaking and entering. Not the fact I had to wash everything in the drawers because someone had been through them. Not all the music and stereo that was gone.
It'd take more than a miracle for them to catch the person(s) that broke into my car and took some stuff. I guess my only hope there is if they're stupid enough to keep doing it and eventually get caught.
The sad thing there is the judicial system will probably just slap them on the wrist and they'll be out free to do it again. I think it takes a lot for some people to learn a lesson.
not really trespassing if its not posted no tresspassing. Besides, you really think they'd do anything? They already let him off all his citatations, another ticket wuld do no good at all. All they would tell me is to go pay for a restraining order out of my own pocket.
I argue with kc!! I would call the cops and say look I got problems with this dude I am in a cort battle with him and I dont know what hes going to do! I dont want him around my place!!!!!!!!! I feel he is truspassing and quit frankly I have a fear he mite do something to my house or family!
actually thats what I did. Of course he left before I could actually talk to a cop and when the cop was on the phone, I told them he left. They asked if I still wanted someone out here and I said no, I would call back if he returned.
oh ok didnt know that the ex never said anything about it and sence she loved her money that suprises me that she didnt want me to pay for it!!! lol :sillygrin:
Thinking that because I have to go to court in the morning for my Jeep accident, that I would go get a couple more estimates of the damage. I filed suit for $2500 because thats the max and my 1st estimate said $4000 (Century autobody)to fix it making it a total loss. I did blue book value and decided $2500 was a fair market value for the vehicle.
The 1st place I went was Gregs autobody on 7th St and he gave an estimate of $1721. Not high enough.
So I went to Abra in woodbury. $ 1247!!! WTF!
One more place I went to Hepners in woodbury and they said $2005. Think I'll go with the 2 highest.
Why is it when I want them low they are high? And when I want a high one they go low?
Usually I'm happy with a lower estimate, but not now.
I'm hoping it don't matter because I intend to cite the minnesota law that allows you to have your car repaired at the place of your own choosing. They can't just take the low estimate.
everyones been haveing bad dreams lately!! me my girlfriend !
this next part is just me getting this off my chest before I do something stupid so you dont have to read or responed if you dont want!!!!!!!!! I just need to write it out and in the truck I got no other place to do it so sorry!!!!!!!!!
I am sick to my stumick!!!!!!!!! because of my insecurety issues!! why cant I just acepit it for what it is if she cheats I will get over IT!!!!! I dont think she will but with all the crap women have put me thru in the last few years its hard to get OVER!!!!!!!!!
I will put more in things you injoy if any wants to read that TO!!!!!
oh ya getting in to work only to have a full load with 5 skids weighing 3000 lbs eatchthen haveing to hand load them and will have to hand unload them!!!!!!!!!
can a person quite and go on unenploment?????
I really dont want to be here anymore I am going to get in a fight with the boss in sioux falls one of these nights if stay here much longer!!!!!!!!!
650 is a good joe just whating for 666 joe!!!!!!!!!
is it weard that she dosnt want to let me know where she lives!!!!!!!!! maybe thats another reason I am haveing insecurety issues!!!!!!!!! I dont know just a tought!!!!!!!!! she wont let me pick her up and wont tell me her address or anything she says it because she hates it when people just stop OVER!!!!!!!!! I told her I dont do that because I hate it when people do that TO!!!!! witch is not a lie!! I use to tell people that they have to leave I am not eavn opening the door for them!!!!!!!!!
hope today was better for you cm
missed you last night
I remember a couple years back when everyone in the cooler was looking for work - remember that? goodness - sorry everyone :frown:
Although the day isn't over yet. I use my car as a place of solitude. Maybe not the safest thing to do but it works for me for now. It's good that I'm not driving tomorrow. But I'm better around people anyway.
I know that there will be ups and downs throughout this whole process so I'm OK with it when it hits.
Jake promised whitney and a friend dq tonight....I'm sure we can con him into treating you too :smile:
take it easy ok? please.
hugs
so here i sit. thank gawd for internet on my phone.
he is kinda cute when hes drugged. all slobbery wobbly and just a big teddy bear.
120 pounds already? wow - glad he's alright
my chest & back are killing me!
I'm being reminded of how strong our bodies and souls can be at the exact time how fragile our lives really are.
knowing 2 people who went into the hospital for major life threatening surgeries -- Jake and I visited one of them in the hospital ICU. I told Jake that something is still not right....after everything that has happened over the last couple of weeks I still feel uneasy and somethings still not right...to get a phone call from my mom a couple hours later to find out that our family friend WAS in the same ICU at the same hospital and passed away that morning I was there! :frown: - my other friend is looking really good thank GOD!
one is 120 pounds. the other is 65.
He'll always be my pup.
Justice is a joke!
The guy actually admitted he hit me to the cop, but in this day and age I guess thats not enough. Although after he admitted he hit me he also immediatly started lying to the cop saying that I stopped on purpose so I could get my car fixed and that he didn't do the damage to my car. What a joke!
I'm pissed! :angry: :angry: :angry:
On a better note I still have a courtdate with the passenger (His girlfreind) that owned the car. His notice was returned because the concilliation court mailed the summons to the wrong adress! :angry: :angry: But she did answer it so I at least got her to court, since she is probly ultimatly responsible to insure her vehicle. I could have given them another adress to mail a summons to but we would have to reserve them both and I don't trust that he gave the correct adress anyways. And I don't think she'd accept another certified letter after her last one, so I better just take her to court.
The whole thing ticks me off! All you have to do is lie, lie, lie and deny everthing and you go scotfree. What a joke! :angry:
Sux
We got a letter stating we may be subpoened to Pine County court in August.
If you remember, a few years ago - during the Phalen hunt - our place up north had been broken into. They finally got the guy on check forgery. That may be what we get subpoened for...the forgery. Not all the stuff he otherwise stole from the house. Not the breaking and entering. Not the fact I had to wash everything in the drawers because someone had been through them. Not all the music and stereo that was gone.
I'm hoping and crossing my fingers that I may still get justice on friday, but not holding my breath.
I definatly let the assistant DA know what I thought of his "Justice" though.
It took months and months before Pine County even bothered to look at the video tape.
I had about given up. If someone hadn't been diligent about bugging 'em, this would never have happened.
The sad thing there is the judicial system will probably just slap them on the wrist and they'll be out free to do it again. I think it takes a lot for some people to learn a lesson.
I hear complaints daily from customers about that..
The guys really pushing it with me. I may go to jail for assault. (I didn't do anything yet)
I'm hoping he's stupid enough and emboldened by his dismissed charges to actually come to court with his girlfreind on friday.
He tells me " You really screwed up. You don't have any insurance. And your cars not totalled, you can still drive it".
He evidently don't know what the term "totaled" means. He also dosen't seem to know that I do indeed have insurance.
What an ass, I just wanna punch him!
Thats what I do to dogs who stray on mine.
grrr.....slow
grrrr
last day of the month ...worst day of my month.
I didn't have to pay for one on his g/f - cause she waved a gun at me - infront of 2 cops no less.
They felt it was for my safety. I agreed.
The 1st place I went was Gregs autobody on 7th St and he gave an estimate of $1721. Not high enough.
So I went to Abra in woodbury. $ 1247!!! WTF!
One more place I went to Hepners in woodbury and they said $2005. Think I'll go with the 2 highest.
Why is it when I want them low they are high? And when I want a high one they go low?
Usually I'm happy with a lower estimate, but not now.
I'm hoping it don't matter because I intend to cite the minnesota law that allows you to have your car repaired at the place of your own choosing. They can't just take the low estimate.
Cross your fingers for me!
Raymond Auto Body is almost always the highest. They are up on Pierce Butler.
1400 St. Clair
I don't feel well :frown:
Those suck - I've had a few lately myself. :frown:
this next part is just me getting this off my chest before I do something stupid so you dont have to read or responed if you dont want!!!!!!!!! I just need to write it out and in the truck I got no other place to do it so sorry!!!!!!!!!
I am sick to my stumick!!!!!!!!! because of my insecurety issues!! why cant I just acepit it for what it is if she cheats I will get over IT!!!!! I dont think she will but with all the crap women have put me thru in the last few years its hard to get OVER!!!!!!!!!
I will put more in things you injoy if any wants to read that TO!!!!!
oh ya getting in to work only to have a full load with 5 skids weighing 3000 lbs eatchthen haveing to hand load them and will have to hand unload them!!!!!!!!!
can a person quite and go on unenploment?????
I really dont want to be here anymore I am going to get in a fight with the boss in sioux falls one of these nights if stay here much longer!!!!!!!!!
is it weard that she dosnt want to let me know where she lives!!!!!!!!! maybe thats another reason I am haveing insecurety issues!!!!!!!!! I dont know just a tought!!!!!!!!! she wont let me pick her up and wont tell me her address or anything she says it because she hates it when people just stop OVER!!!!!!!!! I told her I dont do that because I hate it when people do that TO!!!!! witch is not a lie!! I use to tell people that they have to leave I am not eavn opening the door for them!!!!!!!!!
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