Found this in another thread and thought I post it for those of us that have lost somone we love...
"Like so many that have passed on they remain in our hearts and minds where the good memories remain with us. The world has been a better place for us because of them."
sorry I have not been returning calls or been on here!!!!! I lost 2 people that I love alot on sunday!!! nether one know each other but they went within a hr of eatchother and right now I am going to crall in to a hole for a few days maybe weeks me2 if you know someone eles that wants that entertanment center go head dont hold it for me I will check back but not be posting!!
I lost a aunt that I was prity close with and one of my best friends that I have knowing for about 20 years he lost his battle with durgs and bi poler so am not doing good this has been one of the worst years of my life as far as death gose!!! My friend hurts I think myore then my aunt becasue I have took him to treatment 2 times and got him to check in to the hospitale for his bi poler!!! I have been there with him along time!!! Ok well I am out of here for a few!!!!
At first I couldn't read it without singing it. But then when I did it was awesome. I've sung that song 1000 times like everyone else but it never hit me as hard as it is today. Thanks Kitch.
I'm going to take the liberty and dedicate Kitch's post to Eags today. (((((Eags))))))
I'm a HUGE fan of Rodrigo y Gabriela - I love their metallica cover of Orion, and Diabo Rojo. I was just on youtube watching one of their other videos and came across this pink floyd's wish you were here by Rodrigo y Gabriela
And my sisters birthday so we knew when Amy died that her birthday would be 3 months. She sent Ali a perfect book that was exactly as it happened with us between a dad and daughter and the hospital and coming home and breaking the terrible news. The crying, hugs, more crying, anger, everything. And that was only in the first three pages. We were bawling so bad that we had to put it down. Especially because the name of the book is My Favorite Star and I can only think that it would lead to looking up at the star you had named after Amy. Thank you so much again OT!
While I know that our loved ones would wish us only peace and joy and to be able to shed the sorrow, we are human and we can only do it how we do it. We miss them, and that's one of the biggest understatements ever.
its true and profound
 :frown:
MY NEXT LIFE
I want to live my next life backwards:
You start out dead and get that out of the way.
Then you wake up in a nursing home feeling better every day.
Then you get kicked out for being too healthy.
Enjoy your retirement and collect your pension.
Then when you start work, you get a gold watch on your first day.
You work 40 years until you're too young to work.
You get ready for High School : drink alcohol, party,
and you're generally promiscuous.
Then you go to primary school, you become a kid, you
play, and you have no responsibilities.
Then you become a baby, and then...
You spend your last 9 months floating peacefully in
luxury, in Spa-like conditions - central heating,
room service on tap, and then...
You finish off as an orgasm. :cool:
area code Joe
"Like so many that have passed on they remain in our hearts and minds where the good memories remain with us. The world has been a better place for us because of them."
Finishing life as someone else's orgasm just somehow seems like it would be disappointing, though. :eek: :wink:
I lost a aunt that I was prity close with and one of my best friends that I have knowing for about 20 years he lost his battle with durgs and bi poler so am not doing good this has been one of the worst years of my life as far as death gose!!! My friend hurts I think myore then my aunt becasue I have took him to treatment 2 times and got him to check in to the hospitale for his bi poler!!! I have been there with him along time!!! Ok well I am out of here for a few!!!!
take care of yourself
try to think of the good times with your friend
and how you were there for eachother
big hug
If you wake up and don't want to smile,
If it takes just a little while,
Open your eyes and look at the day,
You'll see things in a different way.
Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow,
Don't stop, it'll soon be here,
It'll be, better than before,
Yesterdays gone, yesterdays gone.
Why not think about times to come,
And not about the things that you've done,
If your life was bad to you,
Just think what tomorrow will do.
Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow,
Don't stop, it'll soon be here,
It'll be, better than before,
Yesterdays gone, yesterdays gone.
All I want is to see you smile,
If it takes just a little while,
I know you don't believe that its true,
I never meant any harm to you.
Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow,
Don't stop, it'll soon be here,
It'll be, better than before,
Yesterdays gone, yesterdays gone.
Don't you look back,
Don't you look back.
At first I couldn't read it without singing it. But then when I did it was awesome. I've sung that song 1000 times like everyone else but it never hit me as hard as it is today. Thanks Kitch.
I'm going to take the liberty and dedicate Kitch's post to Eags today. (((((Eags))))))
damn...
that'd be all of you
whether a wedding like in this video
or take the words and put them in your own vision -
I bawl everytime I hear it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fk5K-eTTkfM&mode=user&search=
Now excuse me while I grab a tissue.
No Kidding! :frown: wow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
I'm a HUGE fan of Rodrigo y Gabriela - I love their metallica cover of Orion, and Diabo Rojo. I was just on youtube watching one of their other videos and came across this pink floyd's wish you were here by Rodrigo y Gabriela
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household world that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Henry Scott Holland
1847-1918
(((((CM)))))
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
That's real hard to do a lot of times.
especially today :frown:
Thanks ladies
Is it her birthday today? If so, you'd better buy that balloon.
And my sisters birthday so we knew when Amy died that her birthday would be 3 months. She sent Ali a perfect book that was exactly as it happened with us between a dad and daughter and the hospital and coming home and breaking the terrible news. The crying, hugs, more crying, anger, everything. And that was only in the first three pages. We were bawling so bad that we had to put it down. Especially because the name of the book is My Favorite Star and I can only think that it would lead to looking up at the star you had named after Amy. Thank you so much again OT!
We'll read the rest of it tonight.
Tough stuff. :frown: :frown:
I'll be thinking of you two tonight.
While I know that our loved ones would wish us only peace and joy and to be able to shed the sorrow, we are human and we can only do it how we do it. We miss them, and that's one of the biggest understatements ever.
Here's the book I was mentioning above that my sister sent Ali. It took me forever to find it since I got the name wrong.
The Brightest Star
It's so wonderful that you and Ali have each other and openly share your feelings.
Take care of each other.