I just want to share this story - my mother had her aortic valve replaced when she was in her 70s. This was due to childhood illness that had scarred her valve and over the years the valve deteriorated.
Anyway, after the surgery she went through an outpatient cardiac rehab program and I am not kidding - she was more fit after that than she had been most of her adult life.
The artificial valves have been on the market for a long, long time now and I recall they told us that, even in a younger person, they are made to be durable to last the rest of a person's lifetime.
I was also surprised at how little discomfort my mother reported after her surgery, and we were told that was quite common to have little or no pain and minimal discomfort.
I hope this bone marrow thing is negative and not involved, but so glad they are checking for it.
Damn opportunistic bacteria! I hate that these kinds of infections are becoming much more common. A friend of mine just went through endocarditis this past winter, being treated medically now, but probably will need a valve sometime in the future.
My mother had scarlet fever and the Spanish Flu at the same time. This was in 1918, at the end of WWI, and populations were decimated by the Spanish Flu, worldwide. Healthy people left food outside sick people's homes. Not many dared even enter inside to take care of the sick. Sometimes there was one person in the household who was well enough to take care of everyone. One of my hospice patients recalled, at age 5, being the only one in the household who wasn't sick with the Spanish Flu and he never got it. He took care of everyone, and did the farm chores, and got them through.
It was likely the scarlet fever that left my mother's aortic valve scarred. It sounded like a harmless murmur, to the doctor, and didn't affect her breathing or stamina until she was in her 70s, so she was lucky there.
It sounds like Cluey's situation is more acute. Most of those stem from infections seeded into the bloodstream from dental problems or procedures, or sometimes a simple skin infection can enter through a break in the skin. They will probably have a good clue by the type of bacteria found as to how it started and can then take steps to prevent it from happening again.
The Mayo Clinic patient info websites are really good. I use them a lot when people call me for advice and information. They seem real complete and yet don't overwhelm with too much info.
sorry to hear whats going on ClueDUDE!!! I Hope All Is getting better and easyer!!!!!
I love you man Just like I love all the COOLER THE SAME WAY!!!!
eavn thought I Have a weard way of showing it!! and some dont like the way I show IT!! sometimes!!
get better Brother I am staying In WSP Right now and Want to get out and play some diskgolf When your up and Running again!! Witch I know since your a strong loving and caring Guy!! how Can kick The Crap out of any Little Sickness that trys to take on the all mighty powerful CLUEMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry to drag this up with the clue man laid up!!!
but she isnt going to last much longer they are going to call it LIVER cancer on the death cirt. when she passes because it is the closest to say for the way it hit her and everthing!!!
but this is from her caring bridge!!!
:crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying:
SUNDAY, AUGUST 03, 2008 04:44 PM, CDT
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Hello Everyone,
I figure we are due for an update, unfortunately this update is not a positive one. Cherrie is bed-ridden and has been for the majority of this past week. She spends the most of her days sleeping. Cherrie is in pain although she is choosing not to medicate herself too often because wants to be clear headed. She is now struggling to stay alive, but still unbelievably strong in spirit and even maintains her sense of humor. I have not heard her complain once of anything. A smile from her peaks out once in a while, but the jaundice has returned and her food intake is barely existent. Despite her current state, my sister still looks beautiful to me. The family is asking that you would please continue to think and pray for Cherrie but visits are now restricted to immediate family during Cherrie's last days to allow for her peace and comfort. Thank you to everyone who continue to show their love and support to Cherrie and the rest of the family during this difficult journey.
the good things are that Clueys shakes seem to be under control with a drug for the most part but the pain at the core of the shakes is still very present. :frown:
Brad just came out of the throat test .......... I've been told that our Brad's heart is being deeply attacked by this bacteria that they can't wait to let the bacteria die with antibiotics over a few weeks. He is scheduled to be moved to St. Joes tomorrow and prepping for Heart Surgery on Wednesday! OMG hardly anytime to take any of this in. :frown:
Although we don't know each other that well, we've been posting in Daisy's forum and in mrmmmikey's forum for awhile now, and found him very witty and friendly..
Healing thoughts and prayers will be with him, through the surgery and his recovery and I hope to see him back posting his jokes real soon..
Thank you to Mr.Z for letting me know..that was really sweet of you.
mrmmmikey it's my pleasure, I really "took" a shining to Clue and his "jokes"...he's a good guy..and of course I don't know most of you personally but I can tell that you are a good crowd..
Please if any one is talking to him, tell him FROGGY said hello....and I'll be "ribbeting" for him... :wink: :wink: :wink:
Stopped by to see Brad before they move him... He's in good spirits.. Seems we just missed you Redbear :frown:
Seems Brad could have saved a bundle of $$ with a connection in the family! :goofy: You'll have to asked him about it when he is on the mend - will make a great story waiting for the next clue to come out! :grin:
Clue stay strong, I wish I was around to come by and see him but I won't be back in town until Saturday at the earliest. Someone give him a hug from mommy will ya?
Yesterday Brad had to undergo 2 major tests. One confirmed the heart valve problem. ............. the doctors want him transfered to St Joes today and have penciled him in for the surgery Wednesday-THATS TOMORROW!!!!! too much to take in with so little information. He is gonna try to talk with the doctors to postpone even by a day or two just to take it all in. You should see his chest!!! He looks so good with all that weightloss and now this!!! :frown:
he is greatful to everyone! He got all teared up by the generosity and genuine care of you guys. you guys rock.
HFS - let us know what we can do to help out Budly.....
TC and Ares - let us know if you need help with Ali...thanks for taking good care of her :smile:
Brad - hope you get well soon....just heard today..had me scared to shit here.....
I will stop by with a current issue of Hustler or something for you to read and get the blood pumping once I know you get moved and decide when your surgery is....
I do have to say that a couple of cool treatments Brad gets to experience is, yesterday he got a foot rub by a masseuse AND today he is trying to lay on his tummy for acupuncture on his back.
I just dropped by to get more news..and I see that they've scheduled the surgery for tomorrow..It's alot to take in all at once I do agree, and yet on the flip side of things, the sooner he gets it done, the less time he gets to worry about it.
What kind of music does he like?
The making of a CD is a lovely idea. Everyone could put in one of their songs and when that songs plays he will know that we are thinking of him...
"HOUSE OF THE RISING SUN" by the Eagles is also a good one.
"FOOTLOOSE" by Kenny Loggins is also a nice one...
Again it all depends on what he likes..
And this goes to anyone who speaks to him..
PLEASE GIVE HIM MY REGARDS...AND TO GET BETTER REAL SOON...
Leelabell wanted me to post and let you guys know what has been going on with her.
About 3 weeks ago she was diagnosed with Stage 2 Hodgkins Lymphoma. She is currently going through Chemo for the next few months but in her words "I'm determined to be well by the beginning of the year".
She is feeling pretty good so far and has a wonderfully positive attitude.
Anyway, after the surgery she went through an outpatient cardiac rehab program and I am not kidding - she was more fit after that than she had been most of her adult life.
The artificial valves have been on the market for a long, long time now and I recall they told us that, even in a younger person, they are made to be durable to last the rest of a person's lifetime.
I was also surprised at how little discomfort my mother reported after her surgery, and we were told that was quite common to have little or no pain and minimal discomfort.
I hope this bone marrow thing is negative and not involved, but so glad they are checking for it.
Damn opportunistic bacteria! I hate that these kinds of infections are becoming much more common. A friend of mine just went through endocarditis this past winter, being treated medically now, but probably will need a valve sometime in the future.
It was likely the scarlet fever that left my mother's aortic valve scarred. It sounded like a harmless murmur, to the doctor, and didn't affect her breathing or stamina until she was in her 70s, so she was lucky there.
It sounds like Cluey's situation is more acute. Most of those stem from infections seeded into the bloodstream from dental problems or procedures, or sometimes a simple skin infection can enter through a break in the skin. They will probably have a good clue by the type of bacteria found as to how it started and can then take steps to prevent it from happening again.
The Mayo Clinic patient info websites are really good. I use them a lot when people call me for advice and information. They seem real complete and yet don't overwhelm with too much info.
I love you man Just like I love all the COOLER THE SAME WAY!!!!
eavn thought I Have a weard way of showing it!! and some dont like the way I show IT!! sometimes!!
get better Brother I am staying In WSP Right now and Want to get out and play some diskgolf When your up and Running again!! Witch I know since your a strong loving and caring Guy!! how Can kick The Crap out of any Little Sickness that trys to take on the all mighty powerful CLUEMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry to drag this up with the clue man laid up!!!
but she isnt going to last much longer they are going to call it LIVER cancer on the death cirt. when she passes because it is the closest to say for the way it hit her and everthing!!!
but this is from her caring bridge!!!
:crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying:
SUNDAY, AUGUST 03, 2008 04:44 PM, CDT
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Hello Everyone,
I figure we are due for an update, unfortunately this update is not a positive one. Cherrie is bed-ridden and has been for the majority of this past week. She spends the most of her days sleeping. Cherrie is in pain although she is choosing not to medicate herself too often because wants to be clear headed. She is now struggling to stay alive, but still unbelievably strong in spirit and even maintains her sense of humor. I have not heard her complain once of anything. A smile from her peaks out once in a while, but the jaundice has returned and her food intake is barely existent. Despite her current state, my sister still looks beautiful to me. The family is asking that you would please continue to think and pray for Cherrie but visits are now restricted to immediate family during Cherrie's last days to allow for her peace and comfort. Thank you to everyone who continue to show their love and support to Cherrie and the rest of the family during this difficult journey.
Peace and Love,
Michael
and the fever has subsided to normal levels.
He gets sponge baths daily.
Thanks for the Cluey updates as well.
I would always have wanted more time.
hugs :frown:
livestrong, amigo
I'm beside myself right now
Brad just came out of the throat test .......... I've been told that our Brad's heart is being deeply attacked by this bacteria that they can't wait to let the bacteria die with antibiotics over a few weeks. He is scheduled to be moved to St. Joes tomorrow and prepping for Heart Surgery on Wednesday! OMG hardly anytime to take any of this in. :frown:
Although we don't know each other that well, we've been posting in Daisy's forum and in mrmmmikey's forum for awhile now, and found him very witty and friendly..
Healing thoughts and prayers will be with him, through the surgery and his recovery and I hope to see him back posting his jokes real soon..
Thank you to Mr.Z for letting me know..that was really sweet of you.
Brad - Praying for you is all I know to do. We love you!
Please if any one is talking to him, tell him FROGGY said hello....and I'll be "ribbeting" for him... :wink: :wink: :wink:
sorry to hear about your cousin, ice
Seems Brad could have saved a bundle of $$ with a connection in the family! :goofy: You'll have to asked him about it when he is on the mend - will make a great story waiting for the next clue to come out! :grin:
he is greatful to everyone! He got all teared up by the generosity and genuine care of you guys. you guys rock.
TC and Ares - let us know if you need help with Ali...thanks for taking good care of her :smile:
Brad - hope you get well soon....just heard today..had me scared to shit here.....
I will stop by with a current issue of Hustler or something for you to read and get the blood pumping once I know you get moved and decide when your surgery is....
In my thoughts and prayers....
RR
So far I've got "Heartache Tonight" by the Eagles
and "Turn On Your Heart Light" by Neil Diamond
and "Piece of My Heart" by Janis Joplin
Sheesh, all this stress is giving me heartburn... :goofy:
All kidding aside,
I wish I could trade his for my heartburn any day of the week...
Get better SOON, dammit.
What kind of music does he like?
The making of a CD is a lovely idea. Everyone could put in one of their songs and when that songs plays he will know that we are thinking of him...
"HOUSE OF THE RISING SUN" by the Eagles is also a good one.
"FOOTLOOSE" by Kenny Loggins is also a nice one...
Again it all depends on what he likes..
And this goes to anyone who speaks to him..
PLEASE GIVE HIM MY REGARDS...AND TO GET BETTER REAL SOON...
Thanks
You people are the greatest friends one could have.
Thank you for the well wishes and all the visitors! I love each and every one of you. :confused: :confused: :sad: :sad: :crying: :crying: :asleep:
Leelabell wanted me to post and let you guys know what has been going on with her.
About 3 weeks ago she was diagnosed with Stage 2 Hodgkins Lymphoma. She is currently going through Chemo for the next few months but in her words "I'm determined to be well by the beginning of the year".
She is feeling pretty good so far and has a wonderfully positive attitude.
So send the positive thoughts in her direction!!!
everyones getting sick
:frown:
T O Y LLBell
My positive thoughts and healing prayers are out to you all.....
:sad: :crying: :sad: :crying:
WTF is going on here???!!????
omg...llllleeeelabbeeeellll get better...please...
We will pray for her too!